ladynerd990
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As a woman who's had four kids, sometimes I literally cannot hold my bladder for the ridiculously long lines for women's restrooms at events. I would pee my pants (probably only a few drops, but eww...and hello UTI or yeast infection). And I'm not even old yet, mid30s, so it's only going to get worse. I've walked into men's restrooms at 8-9 months pregnant with no F's given because I'm not going to continue being uncomfortable to the point of pain or potentially urinating myself in public as an adult women. The real jerks are the patriarchal society who somehow still can't understand that women physically need more restrooms that men do...anywhere...ever. Good gravy, it's not that hard to see. Pretty sure every female alive has complained about it & multiple times. How has this issue still a thing????
YTJ. Idk what kind of person thinks that's a normal temperature to have the heat on, more like some sick joke on your roommates who are stuck roasting alive at night. Maybe you should trade to one of the smaller bedrooms that stay hotter since apparently putting on another blanket or wearing a sweater is too difficult for you. P.S. You're lucky your roommate was as civil about it as she was, I would've woken you up in the middle of the night and torn you a new one because if you kept me awake and uncomfortable just because you're inconsiderate and playing dumb, then looks like we're both going to be stuck awake together having an unpleasant time of it.
Why don't you guys just spend some quality time together over the weekends cooking a few meals to have throughout the week? Or if you prefer stuff cooked fresh vs leftovers you could even just pre-assemble and/or partially cook some meals that all she (or you) has to do is stick it in the oven/crockpot/stove-top or whatever. It'd be much easier on her than trying to stay focused on cooking by a specific time every single day, and you wouldn't be stuck hangry or upsetting her by always cooking for yourself.
Why wouldn't you just tell her you're not comfortable with hosting anyone except your sister since you don't actually need to play hostess with her there? Especially after just having a baby 6mos ago, it's already the perfect excuse and isn't lying. I wouldn't have wanted anyone staying with us when my kids were still infants that young, especially not my day or stepdad. Awkward stuff going on with ladies' body during that time.
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