jeni2
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Why doesn't she just get over it? He is not upset she is waiting until 9 pm to eat, so why does it hurt her feelings when he chooses to feed himself and their child? And if she can't figure out how to meal prep now, it is not going to happen going forward. Adhd is not an excuse to act like an ah, she needs therapy and coping behaviors, not to be enabled, she needs to do it, not him. Also, I don't care about adhd, if she is not feeding the child until 9 pm that is abusive.
Jamison945 is the jerk. We all have issues, like my chronic pain from 4 chronic conditions, my sister who had breast cancer or my brother with multiple myeloma, but we are not here to talk about all the evils in the world, so they need to shut up and sit down. Now onto the issue we are actually commenting on, you have a point that if you feel like the family is not reciprocating your gift giving why should you give to them. I would tell them that you feel as adults you don't need to get gifts, so you are going to concentrate your gifts on your spouse and the children of the family and they should do the same. Basically telling them to stop giving to you and you will too (even though they don't give to you). Then your wife can give smaller gifts just from her out if her allowance.