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NTJ. You might want to consider therapy now since you weren't able to get it as a kid - it's never too late!!
You do not have the responsibility for her. Your sister has responsibility for herself. It's easy to blame your parents, and clearly there were some issues that were caused by how your parents raised you too, but your sister is an adult and makes her own decisions. As do you. You are being an adult and taking steps to spend time with your family in a more positive way. It sounds like the hotel is 100% a good thing to do.
The only negative thing is that you are also taking responsibility for your sister; you cannot control her, and her issues are not your fault. Your husband and kids are happy you exist, and realizing that you are happy to exist and have a good life would help you a lot. Very much NTJ!!
If you promise to do something, follow through. It is not about taking 5 minutes, it is about the fact that you are not prioritizing him and the kids during time specifically set side for them. How would you feel if you two went on a date and he talked to a friend for five minutes while you're at the table?
If you want to spend more quality time together instead of watching Tiktok, discuss it. That seems to be another important conversation. Good luck to you!!
YTJ. By how fast she returned to that style, it's what she always wanted to wear. To be. She has a huge opportunity here to actually have work in something she loves. If you love her, show it and be encouraging!
Honey, you absolutely did the right thing. I am usually in favor of father's rights but he gave those up when he started this madness with his SO. Thank God that the courts are helping you protect your kids. You are absolutely an amazing mother.
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