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"I'm going to change her mind." BS. No he won't. And lying to make her think he is also child-free, then trying to pursuade her to his way of thinking after they're married is a s**t move. Starting the marriage with a lie is a s**t move. You were right to ask the question. She was right to walk away, and I hope she dumps his a*s. I'm betting you two will now have a strained relationship, but good for you. And keep asking those questions with his next (and next, and next) girlfriend. Don't let him waste another girl's time with his lies.
I'd ask your brother exactly HOW you were being disrespectful? You were purposefully NOT gendering your NB in-law. Maybe making him be the one to explain will make him see you were doing the exact opposite.
The kid's 6 or 7 and licking everything in sight??? Parent problem right there.
To me, this seems like Mom is trying to control the situation. Calmly say, "Enough, Mom. You have known for years that we're getting married in May. You chose to schedule your honeymoon for that month (because you either forgot or don't care enough to remember). So stop sending me different dates - We're not moving it. If you can't make it, you will be missed, but we're not moving it. Do whatever you feel you need to do, but I'm done talking about this." And then stick to it. If she brings it up again, hang up, walk away, whatever you have to do to cut off the conversation. Be calm, firm, and hold your boundary. Her decision will give you some insight into now she truly values you in her life. If you're important enough, she'll make it work.
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