Swansea327
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Your family is horrible, but you just continue to allow it! Why?? You're 33, and your mom "just takes money" when she wants it? Again...WHY? Just put your money in an account that she has no access to....and for crying out loud, just say no when they ask for money. Ignore them when they guilt trips you! Block them.... something! Ultimately you're NOT the jerk, but you need to grow a spine and stand up for yourself. Whatever you allow will continue
Why are you even explaining yourself?? Tell her this is the way things are.... period....and just end the conversation. Tell her you're not even going to talk to her if she insists on arguing about every little thing.
Oh, absolutely NTJ!! Ironically, I had the same issue with my daughter and her husband when their child was a toddler. I was happy to watch the little one, as long as I had a heads-up about how long I would have her, and when.... because I actually have a life myself! There were several times where they went out partying while my granddaughter had a sleepover with me. And after a couple of times of them pulling this same stunt of not wanting to come get her because they partied too hard, I just nipped it in the bus. They gave me an attitude, so I just told them their lack of maturity wasn't my problem, and to just get over it. Guess what...they got over it!
I don't understand all the YTJ comments. She KNEW you were sensitive to "purfumey" smells. (So am I, so I get it) But she continues to buy smelly detergents and then try to act all cute about when you confront her. You're definitely NTJ! I would've told her to wash it herself. I wouldn't have thrown it down the stairs....I would've put it straight in the trash
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