Rayray2687
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AITJ For Letting My Friend Become Homeless?
1 year ago
NTJ. Look. I have 2 cats and roommate happily accepts them and loves them too. But I keep up after my cats. I clean the litter box regularly and I brush them daily so they don't shed. I trained them very young to use a scratching post and spent a pretty penny on one so they don't scratch up the furniture or anything else. Despite popular belief it's not only possible to train cats but not thar hard. She's brought this all on herself.
NTJ really. But your friend really wasn't one either. Maybe for how she presented it to her mom. As alot of people have already noted, she was likely depresses and burnt out. I was her in high school. And Jr college. But by the time I was done with my AA I was so burnt out. When I went back for my BA around the 3rd semester I just couldn't do it anymore. I tried. I wanted to. But I couldn't. It didn't help that it was also when jerk hit and it all got switched to botched online classes. In the end you've shown your old roommate the kind of friend you are and it's probably better for both to go your separate ways.
AITJ For Putting One Of My Kids On A Diet?
1 year ago
Yup. I was always slim as a child and active. I was less active than my siblings when I was 11 I started and starting gaining weight but still did dance and bicycling alot. My mother tried restricting my eating. I still gained and developed a horrible relationship with food. We didn't find out I had PCOS until I was 19 bc noone took it seriously and I was just too "lazy". PCOS is the worst. And was also my first thought.
AITJ For Kicking My Daughter Out?
1 year ago
1 NTJ. 2 So glad that you guys have reconciled. 3 I wonder if your daughter has some codependency issues. She spent most of her life taking care of someone else and that is what she has learned to tie her self worth to. So she will continue to find guys that she has to take care of until she learns more about setting boundaries. I am codependent. And most people that are love hard. But it's often not healthy. And we are much more prone to becoming attached to people that are leeches and "need" us. It is Noones fault if she is codependent but it can work wonders to recognize it for what it is and learn to navigate it.
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