Picklepants
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NTJ for not giving them money but maybe you could spend some time with her boys and advise them. Explain to the younger one that if he wants to be a marine he can't be high all the time and needs to focus on school because he will have to pass tests to become a marine. It's not just about signing up and then you're in. Suggest to their mom that they both get counseling. You can help her boys in ways that won't inconvenience you and your life and don't involve money
YWBTJ if you push an ultimatum. Unfortunately your son didn't focus on funds for college and your stepdaughter did. However I'm also going to add that I find it disgusting when parents and grandparents favor their bio children or grandchildren over their stepchildren. When you marry someone who has a child and agree to take on the responsibility of caring for that child they're not your partners child anymore. They are your child too. And the fact that you have been married to him for 10 years which means he's been raising your son and you've been raising his daughter over half their lives yet he clearly shows he cares more for his own daughter and her future is sad
NTJ. If you can't offer benefits for less than full time hours then you can't. From what you said whomever you get your companies benefits from can't or won't make it work with less hours. Not your fault
Kind of the jerk. She had no right to criticize you and I'm assuming you only said she couldn't wear them because she was nasty to you and you reacted without really thinking. We all do that sometimes. So she started it but you could have ignored her
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