MalissaJ
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AITJ For Planting Flowers By Our Mailbox?
2 years ago
Walking in a yard where bees CAN be, is totally different than having to go where there are definitely bees present. Not only go there, but open and closing the mail box, the exhaust or the vibration of the motor bothering them and anyone at any time can develop an allergy to bees. Would you plant these plants for bees close to your door, or beside where your kids sandbox or swings are? If I were your mail carrier, your a*s would have to go to the post office to get your mail. No employee has to put themself in danger. You are NOT guaranteed by right, to have your mail delivered. It is a service offered, but not guaranteed, especially when you deliberately create a hazard for your mail carrier!
How is an 8 year, old, entitled? That teacher promised the kids, over and over and over again, but proves herself to be a liar, every week. The childs mother PAID A BUNCH OF MONEY FOR DANCING LESSONS, but instead that little 8 year old girl, was made to sit on the floor, crying, for TWO E****G HOURS, even after she apologized. That was a teacher getting paid to do something, but not doing it. That's fraud and can actually be illegal and open up the dance school for lawsuits. Two hours... if a school teacher made a student sit on the floor by her desk for two hours, she'd lose her license. If a parent did that, CPS calls that abusive, because it IS abusive to make a child sit on the floor, for two hours! She was humiliated, she had to watch her friends dance and learn new things.
While she was forced to sit in one spot for two hours. I would demand my money back and remove my daughter from that school, and and use that money for another school or private instructor. I'd definitely not allow my daughter to go to a school where an act of abuse was swept aside. So what, the teacher is young and learning... SO IS THAT 8 YEAR OLD LITTLE GIRL! No act of abuse should ever be ok, as long as it only happens once!!
YTJ. Not because you are refusing to help her children, but because you have decided not to marry her, JUST to make sure she has NOTHING if you die. My following advice is for her. RUN AWAY! Why does he get to have all of the benefits of being married, without having to marry her, to make sure she gets nothing if you die. Meaning, not only do get to keep the girl, your kids and your ex (who you are still in love with.) What does she get? A man she loves, who does NOT love her and refuses to respect her by demanding that you LIVE like you are married, but no marriage, JUST so you have ALL of the BENEFITS of marriage, but you dont love and respect her enough to actually marry her. She cooks, cleans, performs in bed and is in love with a man who only wants to take and take and take, but gives nothing in return. She wants a husband..
You have worked it out so that you get a 24/7 maid, chef, laundress and s*x slave. What does she get? An AH of a man who is still in love with his ex and views her as the one your are settling for. She deserves some one who believes she is THE ONE, and loves her enough to make a lifetime commitment to her and her to him. You refuse to respect her and love her as anything more than a d****d slave. So Lady, if you are reading this, RUN AWAY! RUN very far away and never make the mistake of settling. You are worth much more than that. Look for someone who will love YOU with the same intensity as you love him. NEVER settle, always look for a man who cherishes you. You deserve no less than that. He deserves no more.
When you get to know your in laws, you grow to love them. Just because you break up, for any reason, doesn't mean your family automatically stopped loving her and started hating her. Their relationship with that person has not a d****d thing to do with you or how much they love you. Real life doesn't work that way. In fact, you are letting your ex win. You have cut off your sister. You are hurting your sister and yourself and giving your ex free range with your sister. Also, real families forgive each other. If family means so little to you, that is on you. Your sisters decision to continue her friendship with your ex isn't wrong. Expecting you to be around your ex....that is a jerk move. So you both need to grow the h**l up and realize that only YOU believe that you should be the center of the other's universe. You are only the center of the universe to yourself.
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