MadameZ
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NTJ, this is a job for a trained professional. Do not agree to it: you are not qualified to do the work. If they push, move out as quickly as you can and warn them that you will involve the authorities if they do not get proper, professional care for this poor man. This might mean the end of your relationship with the boyfriend, but if he's in favour of using you as an unpaid servant, he's not worth keeping anyway. (He is very young and it may be that he is used to obeying his relatives or at least not standing up to them, but that is no reason to sacrifice your life for him and his family.)
Meh. When you are living with an abuser, lying and hiding things are survival strategies. Keep on doing what works for you until you can get this stupid, vicious woman out of your life.
Have a good think about how you could move on without this waste of skin in your life. He seems to be a burden rather than a partner and one you need not carry.
YTJ and the sort of idiot who has never looked beyond the scaremongering nonsense of 'all social media is eeeevil'.
Everyone who is learning a skill begins by following instructions - recipes, patterns, online tutorials, classes, textbooks etc. People need to learn how and way some things are done some ways before they can adapt them. TIkTok is no less valid a source of recipes than any old recipe book or cooking magazine. Get over yourself.
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