MadameZ
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Dup the partner, this sort of abusive paranoid jealousy gets worse rather than better.
NTJ. You do not need to take on board someone else's imaginary friend/superstitions/book of special fairytales, though it's better to be respectful and civil around others' beliefs if they are nice people you care about (if they are rude strangers it is not only fine but correct to laugh at their nonsense and refuse to take it on board). If your partner is enthusiastically religious. or becomes so, your relationship might not last - not least because it often becomes necessary to dump a superstitious man, if you are a woman, as an awful lot of them use their imaginary friend as a way of trying to control you and put you in your place...
Yeah you need to move the partner out and end the relationship. She sees you as unlimited funds for her extended family. You can give her advice on where to get hellp but you are not legally liable for these young girls.
As PP have said, this man wants you on the backburner and is also trying to train you into doing the wifey role ie cooking and cleaning for him and remembering his mother's birthday and all the rest of it. While he runs around dipping his wick anywhere he fancies.
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