LittleDee
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AITJ For Asking My Daughter To Pay Rent?
2 years ago
NTJ. It’s better for her to learn at home that she is an adult with adult responsibilities. I have six kids and we would save their rent until they moved out. Then it became their emergency fund if they couldn’t afford a bill, gas, groceries. They now understand why they need savings and put the rent they had paid us into savings accounts for future emergencies.
AITJ For Not Wanting To Relax My Hair?
2 years ago
NTJ. I am half Native American and half European. Most people don’t know that native hair is extremely dry and brittle. It also has waves and it’s very very thick. My mother was European and also treated my hair as she did hers so she never bothered to ask my dad, grandmother or aunts what would work best. (Let it grow long to weigh down the frizz. Gentle shampoo, nourishing conditioner and dry oils.) My parents weren’t together so she refused to let my hair grow long and would have it permed and colored. Even at shoulder length my hair looked like a frizzed out cotton swab. When I was about your age, I was fed up with her nasty comments that I should take better care of it so it could be beautiful like hers. I agreed and she was delighted until she discovered how I would do so. I called my cousin who I had always admired, went over and she taught me what products to use, how to use them and how to style it as I grew it out. Within a year, my hair was halfway down my back and I am finally proud of it.
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