Lillybell24
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Wow just wow! Haven't you read the stories about children and their birthday being by Christmas and they always feel neglected on their birthday? So every year he can expect clothes and school supplies for his Birthday every year because his birthday is right before school starts. You need to treat his birthday separately. All that other stuff is your responsibility. Anyway, make the birthday about him
NTJ you are not doing anything to be malicious. This is all over a cake? The ex is taking this way out of line. Hopefully your husband sees this and puts a stop to her behavior. Please do not let them stomp all over you. Your child is 5. Your other children are older, were they upset about the cake or just their mom. Unfortunately their mother will probably talk in front of the children and she can make this division much worse. You and your husband need to talk and work this out before it blows up
YTJ to think a shower for your wife and baby are not important. However, the mil and sister should throw the party at their place and you could offer to help pay for it. Then it's a win win for all involved and you won't come across as an uncaring jerk
NTJ if she truly wanted the card she would have contacted you. Relationships have two sides and yours was a one way street. She screwed up. And I wouldn't put too much into this one sided relationship
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