Lillybell24
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NTJ she gave them as a gift so she can't demand them back. If you have the money go buy you a new pair and chalk her up as a bad person that you don't want to be friends with
You don't say if you live with her or not. If you live in her household she will be there for firsts but if you have your own home just do the things you want to do without inviting her over. But don't brag about what she missed. Try including her with other activities you do. This could be a tough situation. You may need her for babysitting and such later on down the road and you need to have a somewhat good relationship with her, especially if he is a mama's boy. Someone else said that you needed to be an adult before having kids but it's too late for that so you just have to make the best of it
NTJ of course your kids should be a family gatherings but an occasional adult party or 2 won't make your sister a jerk either. As long as it isn't a holiday or something like a family bbq where children can run around outside.
Growing up my brother and I had different dad's. My B is 3 yrs older than me and my dad passed when I was 7. B also called him dad before he passed. His dad took him every other weekend and only did the minimum court ordered stuff. Years later I asked my B if he ever saw his dad and he responded well I ran into him once at the station and if I would have known what he was driving I wouldn't have stopped. it's ok to cut ties with toxic family members. You are NTJ don't waste another minute on jerk people
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