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AITJ For Beating A Kid At A Game?

13 hours ago

YTJ and a big one at that. To everyone saying ntj and that you shouldn't let a kid win just because they areba kid. That that's not the real world. You need to understand that there is a HUGE difference between letting a kid win and "I wiped the floor with him" like the OP said. I mean they aren't even in the same ballpark. You don't have to let a kid win, but there's no need to take so much joy from beating a child at a game. Which is exactly what OP described. OP actually ENJOYED upsetting this child and making him cry. I'm not saying "let him win because he is a child" im saying have some diplomacy. This isn't a case of an inability to read the room. This is a case of not caring about the room because OP was winning, easily because they were playing a child.

AITJ For Wanting To Name My Son After My Trans Sister's Deadname?

1 day ago

There is nothing wrong with choosing the name John, you aren't picking her dead name, you are naming your son after your father and grandfather. Rainbow is being a bit over-sensitive about the name, it's NOT after her and the name is not only her dead name, it is a significant family name.

AITJ For Not Letting My Youngest Brother Hold My Newborn Daughter?

6 days ago

Soft YTJ. You don't specify your brother's age, im assuming he's an adult tho, or very close to it. You let other people, women, in your family hold the baby but not him. I'm sorry but that comes across as pretty sexist. At the end of the day, she is your baby and you get to make the decisions when it comes to her. But if I was your brother I'd be highly offended by how you did that.

AITJ For Telling Mothers To Control Their Kids In A Restaurant?

2 hours ago

I'm so over the people who say "you are in public. That means other people can do what they want and if you don't like it you should just stay home" I mean c'mon! I don't expect silence, most people don't. But I should be able to expect to not have my table ran in to and not have someone so loud (this applies to adults as well as children) at the next table that I can't hear normal conversation at my own. There's being yourself unapologetically, which is not a problem and then there's not caring that you are disrupting other people's time. That's an ah move.

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