Kilzer53
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And that would be the point to go no contact. I still say it was sadistic to give the couple hope and then dash those hopes. It was past foolish to have even offered.
Ytj. I want everything to stay the way it is. Life never stays the same. People grow and mature. People develop relationships which grow into marriage and children. Friends take a back seat to that. She wants to make u and him happy and she's trying to do just that. U aren't happy with the times she's giving u. What about her? Have u once even stopped to consider what position she's in? She obviously likes the guy a lot or she wouldn't be spending that much time with him. Yet, here u are jealous for her time. Ur about to lose a friendship.
Esh. Everyone is lying to everyone. U and he are lying to his mom since u eloped. He's lying to his mom about why he isn't meeting her and ur lying to urself about how the future's going to be. All three of u need to sit in the same room, come clean and discuss the future. He did put u over his mother but he needs to be blatantly honest about it. He needs to grow a set and plainly yell his mother that since u and he are married - u and his daughter are his family and are his first priority. She has to take a backseat. U need to back off. The mother needs to learn her place.
Lying about everything just complicates and worsens the situation.
Ntj. U took her to the concert. No problem. The only thing u asked was to not have to get out ate to come get her. She completely blew u off and had no respect for u or the fact u wanted ur sleep. She was thinking only of herself. And when she brought up that past partners, brothers or friends would have dropped everything to be at her beck and call - 1. She sounds like an entitled princess and 2. U are her current partner. Not an ex. Not a brother. Not one of her friends. She may not have any respect for them and no care for what she asked of them, but ur not them and u expect more courtesy and thought than that.
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