Kambo
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YTJ. I'm almost 4 inches taller than my husband. I don't like wearing heels cause they're uncomfortable and I didn't want to be at least almost 6 inches taller than my hubby on special occasions. BUT, one of things my hubby has ALWAYS told me was I am more than welcome to wear heels whenever I want. Why? cause he knows I love him no matter what and his height doesn't matter (also helps he stopped growing in the 9th grade so has had plenty of time to be okay with it). You need some therapy if this makes you soooo uncomfortable that you manipulate someone you "care about" to do what you want.
YTJ. My hubby is a gamer. I don't really care about most of his games (a few he's got me hooked on), I DO care about him. So I LOVE when he gets excited about his games and wants to share with me. I make a note to remember game names and a few details about the majority of his games (he has too many to remember all of them). It's part of what makes him who he is and that makes me love him all the more. I'm sure you have some hobbies he's not that into. When you truly care about/love someone, you care about/ love all of them.
NTJ. Kids don't see prejudice until an adult points it out. This is seen so clearly in your story. Just because the parents weren't comfortable around it, their children obviously were okay with them. And it's not your job to tell people about his prostethetics. Would it have changed them inviting him to the party? If so, that is their bad. Your son is a regular kid with a handicap that he doesn't let impede him from being a kid. The parents should be more accepting. Do they expect EVERY handicapped/ disabled person they run across inform them of their disability/handicap? I don't think so. They need to use this is as a teaching moment for their kids about acceptance and love of all mankind.