Justobservant
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Single Egg is 100% right.
Stop LETTING her do this. Change all locks, set alarms, and yes FOLLOW THROUGH WITH POLICE ACTION if she breaks in, setting off alarms.
She craps on your boundaries because there's been no enforcing of it. Don't worry about whatever is causing her to do this, that's HER problem. Reclaim your peace, and get a restraining order if you must. And therapy!! You're a grown up, stop letting her control your life.
He is their problem, not yours. Your dad has a plan, so should you. Go, find your freedom, let the cards fall as they may. If your dad can live on his own, and you can live on your own, great! Your mother is an enabler, so she can and should deal with the consequences of this. Not you. Be free!
I absolutely agree with Worth Seasons comment. Forget the partner, she's now in a position where she's not hurting so she can cough up more rent.
You did correctly, said no and kept quiet about it. But it's eating at you, so I'd suggest go back to the aunt and talk to her. Ask her if she is okay. Make it clear you still cannot help but want to make sure she's not in trouble. And go from there.
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