HomelessMoneyWizard
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Ntj they have the money they just don't want to use it. Kids are not responsible for their parents. If you wanted to contribute you could maybe agree so a partial amount maybe 100 a month. And when you buy a house and are more established in your careers you'll be more financially stable so if they do need help and have used their savings you'll be able to help without giving up your dreams. Your family comes first. And you. Right now that's you, your husband and potential child and having a secure living arrangement. What happens if you end up pregnant and honeless and have no momey? If they wont use their own money for themselves and their health they aren't going to help you.
Ntj do NOT do this. A prank should never hurt anyone especially on their wedding day no matter how fleeting. An objection would upset anyone and even if its revealed to be a joke he will always remember that hurt at what is meant to be the happiest day of their lives. There are lots of things to make it memorable. Paint help me on the bottom of the shoes. Fancy dress. Writing something memorable In the vows. Whatever they want. But it's BOTH their days, the happiest of their lives. It should be something they BOTH agree on not have either surprised. How would she feel if someone objected and she didn't know it was a set up?
NAH you asked her what she'd like at the dinner and she told you. If she's offering to pay and make it herself then that's totally acceptable and she's bringing and paying a nice cheese platter because she wouldn't expect you to provide something you can't eat. She obviously is excited and wanting to contribute, but maybe gone about it in the wrong way and is maybe confused about your food issues as you said they were, and thinks it may be difficult for you to accommodate her picky eating as well as your restrictions and is trying to make it easier by bringing something she can eat and suggesting and paying for a second dessert (and maybe making it herself). Just have a conversation to clarify. Sounds more like mixed wires than anything else
Need more info. Did you inform them ahead of time about the work? Did you know about their business and not tell them until work started? If they knew about the work they could have mentioned it on their listing and offered a discount during those times, meaning they would be more likely to have the place booked rather than empty. when you have neighbours sometimes work noise lawnmowers parties etc happen its part of life
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