HomelessMoneyWizard
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Nta if you were the one giving the order and it was only once you'd done that and were waiting I can see why she'd be peeved at being shushed, but generally nta. I worked in maccas and we used to get some entertaining conversations from people who thought we couldn't hear them once we'd taken the order though
Nah obviously the safety of the child comes first. But as a disabled parent, realising you can't do things with your kid or grandkids alone and deteriorating is emotionally very hard and can take time to process. Keep your boundaries for your kids safety but you'll probably find she gets better with time to deal with her health situations and come to terms with things
Ntj they have the money they just don't want to use it. Kids are not responsible for their parents. If you wanted to contribute you could maybe agree so a partial amount maybe 100 a month. And when you buy a house and are more established in your careers you'll be more financially stable so if they do need help and have used their savings you'll be able to help without giving up your dreams. Your family comes first. And you. Right now that's you, your husband and potential child and having a secure living arrangement. What happens if you end up pregnant and honeless and have no momey? If they wont use their own money for themselves and their health they aren't going to help you.
Ntj do NOT do this. A prank should never hurt anyone especially on their wedding day no matter how fleeting. An objection would upset anyone and even if its revealed to be a joke he will always remember that hurt at what is meant to be the happiest day of their lives. There are lots of things to make it memorable. Paint help me on the bottom of the shoes. Fancy dress. Writing something memorable In the vows. Whatever they want. But it's BOTH their days, the happiest of their lives. It should be something they BOTH agree on not have either surprised. How would she feel if someone objected and she didn't know it was a set up?
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