EvilRegal
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NTJ and your daughters behavior is immature and childish and sounds very entitled. I think you assumed your children would be reasonable with their wedding plans, sounds like other daughter was and you didn't account for the possibility that one of your daughters would have more extravagant tastes. Rather than completely pulling your funding i would sit down and explain your expectations when you offered to pay and give her an offer of how much you're willing to spend on the wedding and say its that or nothing. She can still have her extravagant wedding but most of it will be on her dime or she will have the make compromises.
AITJ For Refusing To Get Rid Of My Dogs?
2 years ago
NTJ, in fact I'm seeing huge red flags in this relationship and i suggest you run away from it not walk, because its not just the dogs its the fact he's trying to control the dynamics of your relationships with others that oozes red flags. Its important to have healthy boundaries as to what's considered cheating and not, but what he's demanding of your relationship is NOT healthy and is very controlling! Also what standards is he holding himself? Is he himself living up to these expectations? If this is one sided and there's a double standard than you definitely need to ditch him. Either way i think you deserve better than what you're getting from him. He's the selfish jerk
Op is a jerk! His partner sounds like a lovely positive woman who sees the beauty in everything while OP is crushing her spirit with his constant negativity. I think op could stand to learn and thing or two from her and pull his head out of his negative a*s
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AITJ For Treating My Children Differently?
2 years ago
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WIBTJ If I Put My Mental Health First?
2 years ago
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