CletusSnow
Metaspoon User
8
votes
189
comments
961
points
Description
User Comments
She's a d i n k. If the items are not considered to be your contribution, then I guess she should pay your father for half the cost because he wasn't buying them as a gift for her. Stop discussing any finances with her that aren't your shared expenses. She doesn't need to know how much you spent, how much you have, if you used coupons, if your dad paid for it, if Santa Claus paid for it..nothing. Consider finding a new, less-petty, roommate.
If your dad handed you $100 and you bought your items with that, does it count? What about if you used a gift card that you got for your birthday? Your roommate is delulu.
You feel that you deserve some credit for her accomplishments, and that should be acknowledged by her touting your surname in her professional life instead of the surname that she wants to use? Yeah...YTJ.
The friendship is probably done anyway, since she's taken such great offense at your response, but..you can tell her that youll be using a management company (since you won't be local enough to manage repairs and annual inspections) and that she's welcome to submit an application with the management company but that you won't have anything to do with the applications and the approvals will be done by the management company using their own criteria such as references and credit score.
AITJ For Not Paying More Of My Partner's Rent?
2 months ago
She could charge $5 at the door for anyone who enters the apartment to visit, including the advice-giving friend, because apparently other people should help pay her rent if they are ever in the apartment? She's silly and wrong. She's a grown a*$ woman who needs to rely on her own d**m self to pay bills and plan to help herself with emergencies, whether through saving an emergency fund or having a $1000+ clean credit card to use in emergencies. Continue with the $60 because you said that you would, but honestly I wouldn't contribute anything else to her bills or other financial needs/wants.
Load More Comments
Story Votes
Downvote
Upvote
Downvote
Upvote
Load More Votes