2unyoozhuel
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WIBTJ If I Stood Up To My Mother In Law?
2 years ago
You don't have to make a big production out of this but stop laughing at her "jokes". When you laugh you are validating her comments and encouraging everyone to continue this line of "humour". Next time use a response like saying the words "ha ha" then giving a half smile. Mil should get the point that the joke is getting old and wearing thin. The 2nd time don't even smile. Also quickly say "thank you" etc (louder and more insistant than mil) the next time a stranger says something so it's clear YOU are the mother.
AITJ For Not Wanting To Move Out Of My Condo?
2 years ago
Ytj. I live in Canada and the social rule here is that everything in a rental agreement between roomies is equal EXCEPT that the person first in the home gets dibs if the roomies have to part ways. That means that she gets first choice to stay or leave. Pack your bags
Everyone here sucks, mostly your SIL but yes even you. The whole family is drama kings. You didn't talk to your family simply because the Reveil didn't go perfectly? Dramatic much? However you can only change yourself so work on growing as a person and finding healthier ways to deal with family. And give your family a break because you're exactly the same
NTJ though i think if you're still grieving then a year isn't enough time. I think you're extra lonely because you've never lived on your own. I recommend you take more time to work on yourself otherwise you could become the type of person who will stay with any guy just because you can't handle being alone. Whater you choose, please don't allow every guy you cross paths with to be in your kids lives. That's not fair to them and can put them in a dangerous situation.
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