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"I (16f) just had my birthday yesterday. We picked 2 Dairy Queen ice cream cakes because there would be a lot of people having cake. It turned out that not everyone would be having cake so we finished one cake and had only a slice taken out of the second cake. Today I went outside to talk to my family and my dad asked me how big the freezers are at work. I told him and asked him why he was asking me, and my stepmom said "We thought you should give away your cake to your coworkers tomorrow." I asked why we couldn't keep it and they said they didn't want it still here when we go on a trip in a week. I told them I could bring it to my mom's house and my stepmom started to make passive-aggressive comments towards me that it wasn't my birthday anymore so I didn't get to be a diva. I got upset and said I would not be taking it to work because I knew I would not get any of it. I got up to leave and got scolded for leaving. My whole family started to talk when they thought I left. They all think I'm being a jerk by not bringing it to work. But it's my cake that I chose and I want to eat it. AITJ ?" Another User Comments: "NTJ. You got TWO CAKES for your birthday so, yes, the second cake IS actually for you. Your dad is not the brightest bulb in the chandelier. It is YOUR cake to do with as you wish. You don't HAVE to share it. If you want to sit down tonight and EAT THE WHOLE THING YOURSELF, that is your right." [deleted] Another User Comments: "NTJ. I know people who give away most of the sweets they get because they have some eating disorders and can't have too many foods like that in the house. It's too tempting for them to binge eat it all. Sometimes the parents do it so that the kids don't binge eat it and get fat. I say that is nonsense though, as it's your birthday cake and you should be free to do what you want with it." dajur1 Another User Comments: "Absolutely NTJ. That’s your cake and you should get to eat it however and whenever you want. You have no obligation to your coworkers to give them your cake." savingsanitynotmoney